A. We had a Council meeting on January 12, 2023. The next meeting is on March 23, 2023, in Cary, NC.
You might ask: “Why wasn’t I invited?”
The answer is: “You’re not signed up to volunteer as a committee chair or a council member.”
Then, you might say: “Well, how can I get more involved?”
My response would be: “Have you not read any of the previous blog posts where I tell you exactly how to do this? Are you so stinking busy that you can’t take the 15 seconds to email me or Cheyenne Merrigan to get signed up?”
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In 2022, three influential organizations took a public position on this issue of parent-child contact problems. The American Professional Society Against Child Abuse (APSAC) is the leading national organization supporting professionals who serve children and families affected by child maltreatment and violence. Over the years, APSAC has repeatedly opposed the harmful presumption among many family court professionals that parental alienation is the reason for a child refusing contact with the other parent. In its most recent position statement, APSAC warns that a rush to blame one parent for the child’s aversion to contact with the other parent results in professionals failing to investigate allegations of abuse or mistreatment and making recommendations that are detrimental to the child’s best interests.
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Elysia Prendergast-Jones and Sarah Hill McIntyre are Co-Chairs of the Pro Bono Committee of the Family Law Section. They have taken on the important task of serving the underserved in addition to managing regular cases. The Pro Bono Committee is always looking for volunteers to assist clients across the state.
In that vein, the Pro Bono Committee has spearheaded an effort with the Paralegal Division to provide one-day clinics in North Carolina. Listen to this video blog to learn how you can become a part of this important movement in addition to supporting your colleagues!
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I’m thankful that I’m still your chair. You are probably thankful that Jill Jackson will be your next chair. Please don’t impeach me. We just had a Council meeting on November 17.
Here’s an update on my goals.
1. Succession Plan: It’s going to get done by December 31, 2022. So far, zero progress. I only get to fail on December 31, 2022, if I still haven’t done it.
2. Financial Affidavits: We can’t stop winning. We have broken down how to update the financial affidavits by delving into 6 buckets:
“Form” of the Financial Affidavit
“Income” section of the Financial Affidavit
“Fixed” or “Shared Family” section
“Individual Monthly” expenses
Depicting Standard of Living v. Current Standard
User Experience. “User” means our clients, the judges, and ourselves.
We have over 20 people working on this across the state: large counties, small counties, paralegals, attorneys, and more!
3. To streamline Council meetings. It’s an 80/20 on this one now. We’ve made progress. Our last meeting was only 1.5 hours. Read more
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Jill Jackson has been a staple of the family law community in North Carolina for over 20 years.
You may know her as a fierce litigator, a seasoned negotiator, or literally a Wonder Woman™. (Ask her about this if you don’t know the reference.)
In addition to these wonderful things, Jill has an excellent perspective on how to keep our heads in the game without losing our heads! Listen to this short video about Jill’s view on navigating the waters of our profession.
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The month of October brings awareness to many causes. It is Cancer Awareness Month, Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and Pro Bono Month.
Let’s talk about what we can do as family law attorneys to bring some awareness to Pro Bono Month.
The North Carolina State Bar asks each lawyer to commit to providing 50 hours of legal services to those who are unable to pay, according to Rule 6.1, which states in further detail: every lawyer should
“(a) provide a substantial majority of the (50) hours of legal services without fee or expectation of fee to:
(1) persons of limited means;
(2) charitable, religious, civic, community, governmental and educational organizations in matters that are designed primarily to address the needs of persons of limited means; or
(3) individuals, groups or organizations seeking to secure or protect civil rights, civil liberties or public rights, or charitable, religious, civic, community, governmental and educational organizations in matters in furtherance of their organizational purposes, where the payment of standard legal fees would significantly deplete the organization’s economic resources or would be otherwise inappropriate;
(b) provide any additional services through:
(1) the delivery of legal services described in paragraph (a) at a substantially reduced fee; or
(2) participation in activities for improving the law, the legal system or the legal profession.
In addition, a lawyer should voluntarily contribute financial support to organizations that provide legal services to persons of limited means.” Read more
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“If one wishes to know how justice is administered, one does not question the policemen, the judges, or the protected members of the middle class. One goes to the unprotected— those, precisely, who need the law’s protection most! — and listens to their testimony. ~James Baldwin, “No Name on the Street”
The Justice Gap
Civil access to justice is high stakes. It is a prerequisite for meeting fundamental human needs. Without access to justice, individuals are incapable of contesting injustice or holding decision-makers accountable. Access routinely determines whether basic human needs for food, clothing, and shelter will be met, and it can mean everything for a person in crisis. Sadly, when individuals realize they need legal help, they also realize they cannot afford a lawyer. More often than not, they are also ineligible for assistance from legal aid. The difference between the civil legal needs of lower-income Americans and the resources available to meet those needs is what we refer to as the “Access to Justice Gap.” Read more
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Let’s face it, being a lawyer is hard. Being a family lawyer is even harder. We all know that lawyers get a bad rap . . . What do you call 1,000 lawyers at the bottom of the sea? . . . A good start! Family lawyers get an even worse rap . . . our clients blame us for their moral lapses (no, I did not tell you to sleep with your neighbor when I said you could go on vacation) and our opposing parties call us the devil incarnate and file lawsuits against us. Read more
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Are you looking to broaden your knowledge of family law?
Are you in need of CLE hours?
Have you missed the excitement of attending a fun-filled, in-person CLE with your favorite family law colleagues?
If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, you’re in luck – registration for the 2022 Family Law Fall CLE Program is happening now! Here’s what you have to look forward to (in addition to seeing all of your favorite family law friends):
Assumptions and Presumptions and Suppositions, Oh My! 2022 Family Law Fall Program
September 9, 2022 – Hilton Charlotte Uptown Hotel
We encounter assumptions, presumptions, and suppositions nearly every day in the practice of family law. Some of these are set out in statutes, some are derived from case law, and some come from local practice or personal experience. Read more
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